BFF's FOREVER

Meet Sophie and Bogie.

They do not care for each other,

instead merely tolerate when the occasion arises.

Sophie has been known to snap at Bogie when he gets too near me or her food.

Bogie is scared of Soph big time.

Sophie belongs to Jim and I,

a rescue that we got right before we married,

 so we guess she is about 13 years old now.

An older lady set in her ways,

an only child.

Bogie was dumped off at a golf course,

 we think,

because he was so incorrigible.

A very naughty boy.

See this link that inspired an art quilt in Feb. 2010.

He had Doggy Obedience school.

He flunked as did we with him.

My ex and I adopted him about 16 years ago,

and when we divorced he stayed with my ex.

He is a friendly pup and loves everybody,

even other dogs and cats,

except of course for my Sophie.

She is a meanie.

We think Bogie is a Rat Terrier with nervous energy.

Sophie, we think, is a Wheaten Terrier, Cocker, and Poodle mix,

usually very relaxed, laid back and sweet except when she sees Bogie.

Ahhh,

but look at this,

they are chilling side by side,

not touching,

 mind you, 

but long enough for me to take a pix.

Ok, so what's going on here?

I've been babysitting Bogie for the past 2 1/2 weeks now 

because my ex, Inars, suffered a mild heart arrest

 3 weeks ago on the golf course.

His 2 best friends he was with saved his life by administrating CPR

until 911 arrived.

A detective took over from them until the ambulance got there.

 Paramedics did 3 paddle shocks and 5 adrenaline shots to the heart.

Inars was without a heartbeat and oxygen for 30 mins total.

A very long time.

We were scared to death.

And Bogie needed a home.

On the exact same day my husband Jim,

yes the one who had the terrible car accident,

was taken to the hospital by ambulance.

He was having difficulty with balance and walking

(along with several other motor skills) 

and fell into our sliding glass door. 

Thank goodness the plants against the door broke his fall so he didn't go all the way thru the glass.

But he did hit his head and was very confused and not able to walk.

Turns out Jim had 2 brain bleeds.  

One from the accident a few months ago that was slowly building up 

and creating dementia like symptoms,

and a new bleed from his fall into the door.

An MRI was done and a Neurosurgeon was brought in

 to immediately drill 2 holes on either side of his skull and release the fluids.

It worked!!

But more bad news.

Both men were hospitalized for over 2 weeks,

Inars also being treated for a UTI and an infectious bacteria.

We had to suit up to go into his hospital room.

He also lost all his cognitive abilities.

His name, his address, where he was.

The list was long.

 My two children were with him day and night 

helping him,

quizzing him until he started to remember things.

I have never been prouder of how they stepped up to the plate

to be there for him and continue to do so now that he's home.

And did I mention that he contacted Covid in the hospital too?

And that he was sent home to us infectious with that?

Again both children were there regardless if they caught it or not.

Crazy loving kids.

Jim also lost his bearings for a couple of days after brain surgery,

but actually recovered quicker mentally.

He was also diagnosed with pneumonia along with the brain bleeds. 

What do they say?

When it rains it pours,

right??

The good news.

Jim is now in a wonderful Rehab center learning how to walk and balance again.

He will be coming home to me this Friday with a plan for lots of Physical Therapy

and Narcotics free.

Bogie is back home with his dad

who will be getting a defibulator as soon as his Covid is over,

and his memory is getting stronger everyday.

Sophie is an only child again.

And as you can see below,

Bogie and Sophie learned how to co-exist peacefully side by side

and have decided they can bee Best Friends Forever.

Sophie actually even gave the Bogster a kiss yesterday when I brought her over with me to check on my ex.

Life is looking up again!

A special note:

I was never alone in all of this.  

Jim's amazing daughter Julie and her husband Mike 

were by my side the entire time,

constantly calling doctors, checking on meds,

even feeding me a Thanksgiving dinner when I wasn't able to get out to

celebrate with my son's in-laws,

a lovely tradition that's been going on for years now.

Thank you Mike and Julie,

I could have never done this without you.

And to my two children,

Zach and Danielle.

How I love you both with all my heart.

How very much you have learned in the past 3 weeks.

All new experiences for you,

life lessons that have taken their toll on you both and your partners.

Like I said above,

I couldn't be prouder of you both,

especially how you shared the responsibilities equally.

Dad and are are so very lucky that you both are ours.